Learning to play the guitar can be a bonding experience between parent and child, like playing catch or a board game. If approached as a connective personal exchange, music making together can be playful activity leading to an exchange of creative ideas. Like shooting hoops on a basketball court, playing an instrument can also be a solitary activity; if privacy is a desire, allow them to work on their own. However, always show an interest in their music activities and encourage their efforts.
Because it is difficult for many children to problem-solve alone, they can become discouraged and frustrated when success is not immediately realized. It is often helpful for them to have someone within ear-shot to hear them, empathize, encourage them, and – when difficulties arise – intervene and help guide them. For parents, who may feel uncertain of how to help, the book above provides simple steps to help them move from small victories to mastery. Problem-solving and overcoming difficulties is one of the greatest and most important learning experiences in life; it is also a real confidence builder. – PJZ